Showing posts with label interactive randomosity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label interactive randomosity. Show all posts

22 December, 2010

...true story...


I heard the funniest statement about female and male interactions from a new found friend and it got me thinking.

They said:
'Women have it so easy. They get into the club for free; they get drinks specials all night; and if they cute- dudes will buy them drinks. Plus all they have to do is sit back and let guys approach to them to show interest."

Honestly, I was just baffled. Like...(Damn)...TRUE.. But is it really all that simple for females?? Like when it comes to guys, #1 concern is competition-right? Like guys think that 'there's always something better or they always have a side piece'. We have guy friends- we see what they do/ how they talk when they're single.

I say why the hell not! Come to me. Because sometimes that's all the power we have in the male-female interactions. With all the 'competition out there', the least a guy can do is approach us and put himself out there a little first.

But ladies think about this- after a little back and forth, my friend say:
"The least girls could do if we have to approach them is give us a sign they are interested. So we're not standing to the side wondering and approach the wrong person
."

VALID POINT AGAIN huh?





LESSON LEARNED: Male/female interactions ain't easy. We all have our hang ups. Get over it, and go after it!