Its the holidays so I am not around. (sorries) But just writing my 2011 manifest to myself and getting over a horrendous head cold! (honestly, where's the muthafuggin shot for the cold!?? - I will pay $30 for that!)
Sooo I am sacrificing a great social opportunity to get bed rest, and water so I could drink all day tomorrow (after the old year to-do list check-offs, of course) and bring the new year with my beloveds! (judge) I DONT CARE- its going to be a new year!
And a new year involves a LOT of self-reflection, but I shall not bore you with those details. (I don't need you in my head...) But for one thing, I think this past year has shown me the innovations of grabbing and owning your profession, the world and your life path!
2010 EXPERIENCE GAINED: When you lose yourself, make sure you learn from that lose. So it's only a momentary lapse on your climb UP in the world! Inspired by these kids, let's honor our dreams/aspirations and don't stop hustlin.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Showing posts with label experience gained. Show all posts
Showing posts with label experience gained. Show all posts
31 December, 2010
23 October, 2010
douchebags or perspective?
I was reading an Essence magazine article this past week from the October issue which had a whole heep of information on what black men/brothers like in women and a relationship. Besides all these amazing and non-informative statistics (I mean, it was fun to read some of the info, but I didn't get an idea of where the pool of stats were being pulled from...) And ever the over-analytic pisces that I am, I really can't take the info as the 'troof'... Cause I KNOW black men (and men period) differ in perspective/outlook based on their geographic location... (correct me if I'm wrong)
But either way, here are some fun facts about 'Inside the Male Mind'! (yes, I am being selective)
24% of Black men said they do not feel appreciated by Black women
56% are bothered by the hair weaves
55% said they would respect a man who had a successful marriage over a successful career
43% of Black men thought 30-35 is the ideal age to get married. (median for the American man is 28)
56% thought sex was definitely better in a relationship
Over-analytical me says:
To Black women appreciation- uuh, so- what about the majority percentage of that answer- what do they think? In order for me to really believe this, I would need to know what the other 76% think in that survey... But hey guys! Did you know its more difficult for a woman get preggos as she gets closure to 40?? You're effin up my life plan with this 30-35 thing. Cause according to this survey, you seem to think a successful marriage is more important than a successful career?
I'm all kinds of messed up with this one. Or maybe I'm just defensive?... haha
EXPERIENCE GAINED: reality check
But either way, here are some fun facts about 'Inside the Male Mind'! (yes, I am being selective)
24% of Black men said they do not feel appreciated by Black women
56% are bothered by the hair weaves
55% said they would respect a man who had a successful marriage over a successful career
43% of Black men thought 30-35 is the ideal age to get married. (median for the American man is 28)
56% thought sex was definitely better in a relationship
Over-analytical me says:
To Black women appreciation- uuh, so- what about the majority percentage of that answer- what do they think? In order for me to really believe this, I would need to know what the other 76% think in that survey... But hey guys! Did you know its more difficult for a woman get preggos as she gets closure to 40?? You're effin up my life plan with this 30-35 thing. Cause according to this survey, you seem to think a successful marriage is more important than a successful career?
I'm all kinds of messed up with this one. Or maybe I'm just defensive?... haha
EXPERIENCE GAINED: reality check
20 October, 2010
its like a movie #lifeontour (2)
too much to add in one post! don't forget to read part 1 first!
Heavily-self-medicating myself... :0) @PROMISEMUSIC@hautegirls #lifeontour http://plixi.com/p/47584597
@TreDeJean nah. In charlotte now. #lifeontour means I only have quick moments in few places..no moments in most. No worries- another time
One day.. I want to get the cash cab- drunk with 3 of my friends at 4pm
@ whiskey river. In charlotte. Most poppin place?? W a mechanical bull. N 18+ w a cover... #lifeontour
Just saw my first bikini in a club contest... Only in charlotte, right?
Waffle House was NOT that serious... Too much hype for diner food. Maybe it was the waffle house I went to? Haha.
I'm str8 eatin too much on this tour... Don't ask to see me for at least 3 wks post tour... #getittightgetitright
All at once...
Atlanta.
At a belvedere event. Atl is a little-a lot colder than I thought. Cute event.
Just watched the ernie davis movie... So freaking sad, but inspirational. Like what have I done in my 24 years vs what E Davis did in 23.
Bowling place is popping for a sunday... In st louis.
@ the dallas airport.. Grand marnier and patron margarita. Why yes bar lady.... Why yes I do...
DWS >> SFO
The Bay. Hey. I'm excited for these 3 days off that's for sure.... Well sudo days off... Last 2 shows!! Aaaaaah. #worktweet
@ scotts seafood. Across from ms pearl's jam. Hahaa. Oh the greatness.
RT @hautegirls: “@TriNiisa: So you like slingin thangs? @hautegirls #dinnerconversations” U R Estupido!!!!'Queso'
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Jack London Square (Embarcadero West & Broadway, Oakland). http://4sq.com/87jprl
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Air Lounge (492 9th Street, Washington St., Oakland) w/ 2 others. http://4sq.com/7NdVGw
Boudin was good.
Love the men vs women stores out here. Men can't even escape to their own floor they gotta cross the street.... Hahaa#sanfranciscoshopping
RT @absolutelErude: Life is too short to care or to hold grudges on those who shouldn't matter one bit.
There are some new type of homeless out in sanfran/oakland..They all druggies and truly dirty #lifeontour got scared(bougie came out of me!)
Sprint sucks... Its service is just out nationally... And they have no resolve. I'm not paying my bill!! #FUCKOUTTAHERE
Some days I wish I was more trusting...
RT @Wale: Jus had a great discussion. the question is-what's the BEST way to get over a broken heart? <
i have to learn how to conquer my obsessions
RT @hautegirls: Being gangsta'd into checking in by Genisa (@ Buttercup Grill) -->and you know this. Farewell to oakland breakfast. Deuces!
Is there a reason behind why airports are build next to water sources?
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Los Angeles International Airport (LAX) ✈ (1 World Way, at Sepulveda Blvd, Los Angeles) w/ 92 others
Standing on the court that kobe maintains...
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Conga Room (800 W Olympic Blvd, LA Live, 2nd Floor, Los Angeles). http://4sq.com/1gZLTP
In santa monica w sophia!! California is convincing and selling me.
Casual convo: "well I pay attention to you biatch, so don't worry about it"
Feels great to be bak in BK. In my apt... But I'm exhausted as a muthassucka
Back in the office... Riding on fumes. Coffee...coffee...coffee
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