31 October, 2010

costumes

in honor of the halloween spirit

http://strangebeaver.com/2010/10/awesome-holloween-costume/

23 October, 2010

douchebags or perspective?

I was reading an Essence magazine article this past week from the October issue which had a whole heep of information on what black men/brothers like in women and a relationship. Besides all these amazing and non-informative statistics (I mean, it was fun to read some of the info, but I didn't get an idea of where the pool of stats were being pulled from...) And ever the over-analytic pisces that I am, I really can't take the info as the 'troof'... Cause I KNOW black men (and men period) differ in perspective/outlook based on their geographic location... (correct me if I'm wrong)


But either way, here are some fun facts about 'Inside the Male Mind'! (yes, I am being selective)


24% of Black men said they do not feel appreciated by Black women 


56% are bothered by the hair weaves


55% said they would respect a man who had a successful marriage over a successful career


43% of Black men thought 30-35 is the ideal age to get married. (median for the American man is 28)


56% thought sex was definitely better in a relationship


Over-analytical me says:
To Black women appreciation- uuh, so- what about the majority percentage of that answer- what do they think? In order for me to really believe this, I would need to know what the other 76% think in that survey... But hey guys! Did you know its more difficult for a woman get preggos as she gets closure to 40?? You're effin up my life plan with this 30-35 thing. Cause according to this survey, you seem to think a successful marriage is more important than a successful career?


I'm all kinds of messed up with this one. Or maybe I'm just defensive?... haha























EXPERIENCE GAINED: reality check

20 October, 2010

its like a movie #lifeontour (2)

too much to add in one post! don't forget to read part 1 first!


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Heavily-self-medicating myself... :0) @PROMISEMUSIC@hautegirls #lifeontour http://plixi.com/p/47584597


TriNiisa GenisaB 
@TreDeJean nah. In charlotte now. #lifeontour means I only have quick moments in few places..no moments in most. No worries- another time

TriNiisa GenisaB 
One day.. I want to get the cash cab- drunk with 3 of my friends at 4pm

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Plans of riding a mechanical bull tonight.. Lol #lifeontour

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@ whiskey river. In charlotte. Most poppin place?? W a mechanical bull. N 18+ w a cover... #lifeontour

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Just saw my first bikini in a club contest... Only in charlotte, right?

TriNiisa GenisaB 
First waffle house experience... Cabbie is waiting for us outside..#lifeontour

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Waffle House was NOT that serious... Too much hype for diner food. Maybe it was the waffle house I went to? Haha.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
I'm str8 eatin too much on this tour... Don't ask to see me for at least 3 wks post tour... #getittightgetitright

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @DubtheMVP: These lil skinny bitches in Americas Next Top Model aint even cute...<

TriNiisa GenisaB 
All at once...


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Atlanta.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
At a belvedere event. Atl is a little-a lot colder than I thought. Cute event.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
At Gladys Knight's. #latenighttweet


TriNiisa GenisaB 
These atl choirs do have some extra sweetness to em.... #lifeontour

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @ChrissyakaJuicy: In the end, love is all that matters...


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Just watched the ernie davis movie... So freaking sad, but inspirational. Like what have I done in my 24 years vs what E Davis did in 23.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
How much of a bafoon are you too mess up spelling my name when its right in the email. #comeonson

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Flamingo Bowl (1117 Washington Ave, at 11th, St. Louis).

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@dreamhardplz. I'm in LA on the 10th and the show is the 11th. Make sure we catch up! :)


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Bowling place is popping for a sunday... In st louis.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@FaDa_MikE hahahaaa. I sleep ever so often.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Cuteness in anthropology! #iwantit http://plixi.com/p/48786475


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Aint nothing like a margarita in the morning! @hautegirls

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@ the dallas airport.. Grand marnier and patron margarita. Why yes bar lady.... Why yes I do...

TriNiisa GenisaB 
DWS >> SFO

TriNiisa GenisaB 
The Bay. Hey. I'm excited for these 3 days off that's for sure.... Well sudo days off... Last 2 shows!! Aaaaaah. #worktweet


TriNiisa GenisaB 
@ scotts seafood. Across from ms pearl's jam. Hahaa. Oh the greatness.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Big family-style dinner! #lifeontour http://plixi.com/p/49133014

TriNiisa GenisaB 
So you like slingin thangs? @hautegirls #dinnerconversations


TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @dreamhardplz#shoutout to jetsetter better known as @TriNiisa touchin down coast to coast <

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: “@TriNiisa: So you like slingin thangs? @hautegirls #dinnerconversations” U R Estupido!!!!'Queso'


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Almost got kicked out the hotel. Its all ur fault @hautegirlshttp://plixi.com/p/49157140

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Jack London Square (Embarcadero West & Broadway, Oakland). http://4sq.com/87jprl

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Air lounge?? Oakland- u shut down at 130? #bumsakootie

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Air Lounge (492 9th Street, Washington St., Oakland) w/ 2 others. http://4sq.com/7NdVGw

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Ferry from Oakland to San Francisco. Gotta bar??http://plixi.com/p/49254057

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Boudin was good.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
But a whole block lined w tittybars?? #FUCKOUTTAHERE

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Love the men vs women stores out here. Men can't even escape to their own floor they gotta cross the street.... Hahaa#sanfranciscoshopping

TriNiisa GenisaB 
I think I'm going to get a tattoo tomorrow... @hautegirls u down? :0)

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @absolutelErude: Life is too short to care or to hold grudges on those who shouldn't matter one bit.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Powell and Market St. Cable Car Turn Around (San Fran)#stuckonstupidface

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @wil_redmond: Why are all of my tweeps already drinking?#hatintweet <

TriNiisa GenisaB 
There are some new type of homeless out in sanfran/oakland..They all druggies and truly dirty #lifeontour got scared(bougie came out of me!)

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Dottie's True Blue Cafe (522 Jones, at O'Farrell, San Francisco)

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Sprint sucks... Its service is just out nationally... And they have no resolve. I'm not paying my bill!! #FUCKOUTTAHERE

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Sutter Nails (533 Sutter St, San Francisco) <


TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Sushi Groove (1916 Hyde St, at Green, San Francisco) <

TriNiisa GenisaB 
I would like to thank @hautegirls for a FABULOSITY/ AMaZINGFUL DAY! :0)

TriNiisa GenisaB 


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Some days I wish I was more trusting...

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Jack London Square (Embarcadero West & Broadway, Oakland)

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@hautegirls u did show me a good time. Just my 1 wish just never came true!!

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @Wale: Jus had a great discussion. the question is-what's the BEST way to get over a broken heart? <

TriNiisa GenisaB 
i have to learn how to conquer my obsessions

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: Being gangsta'd into checking in by Genisa (@ Buttercup Grill) -->and you know this. Farewell to oakland breakfast. Deuces!

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Just the 2 of us.... Noice-noice. http://plixi.com/p/49862429

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Having a sausage parteee w @hautegirls

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Is there a reason behind why airports are build next to water sources?

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Los Angeles International Airport (LAX)  (1 World Way, at Sepulveda Blvd, Los Angeles) w/ 92 others

TriNiisa GenisaB 
"I usually quote dead rappers, but a lot of times, I find myself quoting JayZ" @hautegirls

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @derekstulander: Tomorrow's a holiday what are ppl doin 2nite in NY?<

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@hautegirls... only the momentous stuff...only the once in a lifetime stuff ;0)

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@derekstulander its in DC... In November. Headed home (finally) in 2days. :0D

TriNiisa GenisaB 
@dreamhardplz yes! @ the staples center right now... Working. Sitting outside for the next 30...

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Standing on the court that kobe maintains...

TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: I'm at Conga Room (800 W Olympic Blvd, LA Live, 2nd Floor, Los Angeles). http://4sq.com/1gZLTP


 TriNiisa GenisaB 
RT @hautegirls: No trip to LA is complete without it (@ Roscoe's House of Chicken & Waffles) <

TriNiisa GenisaB 
I spent $5.93 on water at the hotel... #hungover

TriNiisa GenisaB 
In santa monica w sophia!! California is convincing and selling me.

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Santa monica pier http://plixi.com/p/50315590

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Casual convo: "well I pay attention to you biatch, so don't worry about it"

TriNiisa GenisaB 
Feels great to be bak in BK. In my apt... But I'm exhausted as a muthassucka


TriNiisa GenisaB 
Back in the office... Riding on fumes. Coffee...coffee...coffee
14 Oct